I am happy and proud to say that I met my current boyfriend through a dating service. I had been dating online for awhile, and though I met some great men, I never met the one who was right for me. Until now. My boyfriend tells the same story. He met great women through the one dating service he used, but it never felt right until he and I got together. We’re going strong and about to celebrate our one year anniversary.
So why am I telling you this? Because he and I are one of the many success stories out there showing you that dating services can work. As my relationship progressed, and my friends met my boyfriend, they all started asking how they could meet some a great guy. I introduced many of my friends to using a dating service.
Everyone has their own experience and their own story when it comes to online dating, and I’m not saying that success can happen for everyone. But if you are tired of being single and you want to meet some quality people, you definitely need to consider using a dating service. It’s not like I’m the only one out there who met someone great. Plenty of people using dating services find love and success in a relationship. Obviously, there are so many different factors as to why a relationship works in the first place. It comes down to the two people involved. But if you’re not in the right place meeting the right people, then how are you supposed to be in a relationship in the first place? At least when you begin to use a dating service, you are increasing your odds in meeting the right one.
I dated for a long time before I met my guy. I even thought I was in love before, but that turned out to be a bust! And it’s not like it was instantaneous either. It takes time and effort finding the person of your dreams. And to be honest, I wasn’t sure when I first met my boyfriend if he was the man of my dreams. It took awhile for him to win me over, but now I realize how incredibly blessed I am to have him in my life. He is a wonderful man and we are a great match.
When you first meet your date through a service, don’t be quick to write them off immediately if they don’t seem to fit your bill. Cultivating a relationship takes patience and time and if you initially like them and are not immediately repulsed by the person, you definitely need to give him or her benefit of the doubt. You never know. They actually may wind up being the man or woman of your dreams. Give it a try. And become your own success story.